Betsy and Joe find an apartment and settle into it and into their marriage. Betsy makes a list of rules for married life for herself centered mostly around being a good wife, housekeeper, and cook, which she expects to be her greatest challenge, and one that she approaches with grit and determination. Maintaining house and home was the responsibility of women back then, and while women have more freedom today, to some extent the expectations underlying those norms remain. Total gender equality has certainly not been reached, nor has pay equity. But a true partnership is more possible today, as are same-sex marriages, in which household labor is not divided by gender.
Still, Betsy and Joe approach their marriage as a partnership, which, for that era, it was. He supports her writing and helps her make time for it. He is attentive to her needs and feelings. They treat one another with care and respect. While their sex life is only implied, it is obvious that they find one another highly attractive and sexy, and that Joe is especially fond of the pink silk lingerie that he periodically asks her to put on.
Their easy work-leisure routine is interrupted by the request of Joe’s Aunt Ruth to come live with them. They decide to buy a house so as to have the space to accommodate her. While Betsy is initially unhappy and worried that a new arrival (that isn’t a baby) would be disruptive to their lives, she comes to love Aunt Ruth and accept her presence in their home.
Joe takes a job working late night hours at the paper for more money, and finds himself struggling with the work and with his colleagues. He is increasingly moody and sometimes shuts himself off from Betsy. But they continue to support one another’s wellbeing, hopes, and dreams, and their love deepens.
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On women’s rights and marriage, see: https://www.law.georgetown.edu/georgetown-law-journal/in-print/volume-108/nineteenth-amendment-edition/reconstructing-liberty-equality-and-marriage-the-missing-nineteenth-amendment-argument/#:~:text=The%20social%20movement%20that%20led,as%20to%20women%20as%20citizens.


